I spoke to a really old man yesterday that was telling about his view on marriage. He’d been married 50 years and his wife passed away earlier this month. He said that the key to staying married as long as they had was to listen to one another, not just hear what the other person was saying but truly listen to them. Hear more than the words but also meaning behind them and what they weren’t saying. After a while he said you didn’t even need to speak to one another verbally, you heard them through expressions, movements and body language.
Inshallah one day I’ll get there.